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Sekufu

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We know, everyone is growing with different way of approach from their parents, different education background, different way of life and working style. Adik beradik pun berlainan perangai and habit, apatah lagi suami isteri yang asalnya ialah orang yang asing. Jadi, untuk mencari yang sekufu to be our partner is not an easy thing. For me, this book describe Sekufu (well written by Aiman Azlan & Dr. Halina Halizah Siraj) is not sekadar "sebab saya Muet Band 4 jadi awak pun kena Band 4". Its not only about your education backgroud. But its all started with communications and how we embraced perbezaan yang ada with our partners by using an effective communication. And its giving me a reminder that marriage is not about "You" & "Me", but its all about "Us" like one of the phrase in this book that said " Konflik yang berlaku tidak sepatutnya berakhir dengan 'saya menang kamu kalah'. Semua konflik mesti diselesaikan dalam kedua-du...